A Short Video And Letter That Brought Tears to My Eyes..

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One day we find ourselves caring for aging parents who are as dependent on us as we were on them during our childhood. This role inversion can be emotionally challenging for both parties.

Honoring and respecting  our  elderly parents requires empathy and understanding.  Caring for our parents can be satisfying,   but it can also be  hard work, involving long hours and much responsibility.

If you could do ONE THING and know that it would make a significant, lasting, possibly life-changing difference in your life, would you do it?

 

Letter From a Mother to Her Daughter
BY UNKNOWN AUTHOR

“My dear girl, the day you see I’m getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I’m going through.

If when we talk, I repeat the same thing a thousand times, don’t interrupt to say: ‘You said the same thing a minute ago’… Just listen, please. Try to remember the times when you were little and I would read the same story night after night until you would fall asleep.

When I don’t want to take a bath, don’t be mad and don’t embarrass me. Remember when I had to run after you making excuses and trying to get you to take a shower when you were just a girl?

When you see how ignorant I am when it comes to new technology, give me the time to learn and don’t look at me that way… remember, honey, I patiently taught you how to do many things like eating appropriately, getting dressed, combing your hair and dealing with life’s issues every day… the day you see I’m getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but most of all, try to understand what I’m going through.

If I occasionally lose track of what we’re talking about, give me the time to remember, and if I can’t, don’t be nervous, impatient or arrogant. Just know in your heart that the most important thing for me is to be with you.

And when my old, tired legs don’t let me move as quickly as before, give me your hand the same way that I offered mine to you when you first walked.

When those days come, don’t feel sad… just be with me, and understand me while I get to the end of my life with love.

I’ll cherish and thank you for the gift of time and joy we shared. With a big smile and the huge love I’ve always had for you, I just want to say, I love you… my darling daughter.”

 

Remember to love and treat our aging parents with dignity and honor—for without them, we would be nothing.

Scripture instructs us to “Honor your father and mother.” This is the first commandment with a promise: 3 If you honor your father and mother, “things will go well for you, and you will have a long life on the earth.” (Eph. 6:2-3, NLT).

 

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